Rise Up by Andra Day
Rippling Abs, Anyone?
Check Out This Troublemaker in Relationships
Sometimes we ask intimate partners to do for us what is actually ours to do. We ask our partner to give us the reassurance, love or appreciation we feel is missing in ourselves, with the hope that they will give us what we’re asking for—and then we’ll feel better. They’ll take care of our problem. […]
What Happens When A Woman Takes Power?
“What Happens When A Woman” is a beautiful song-video that communicates what happens when a woman takes power. The feel of the song suggests that “taking power” isn’t about seizing power from someone or something. Taking power isn’t a reaction or a solution. It is not “Me, Too” or feminism or working toward equal rights. […]
Always Have A Friend Who Doesn’t Believe In Your Fear.
My daughter’s dog Baguette treats every dog who shows up in her life as if that dog is there to play. My dog, Jackson, is the opposite. He’s typically aggressive toward other dogs. He’s a rescue, eleven pounds, a long-haired Chihuahua, and thirteen years old. I was never able to find out his history, but […]
Poem: Flood Rain’s Faithful Sister.
Inner Guidance: Story of the Limping Grandma and Marinara Sauce
One evening in my local grocery store, I was shopping in the Italian food section. A few aisles away, a child was in the middle of a loud tantrum. Just as the extra-loud part of the tantrum revved up, a southern grandma walked by me. She was wearing a frumpy sweater and odd-looking pants, and […]
How To Make The World A Better Place
When You’re Having A Bad Day
Do what you can to enjoy the fact that this video begins with eyes closed. :–) I look forward to knowing how to edit it. Also, in case the playback on your device is wonky for any reason, copy and paste this link into youTube directly — https://youtu.be/QddNWxsHr7w. When you get to youTube, click on […]
Video Blog: Offload Unnecessary Stress
Today’s video is 3 minutes, 42 seconds. This is one of the most important things you can do for your health and well-being. Image by Bessi from Pixabay
What Being In A Relationship Invites
I’m turning to videos. I’ve been writing blogs for more than ten years now, and I’m shifting gears. This video is not fancy by any means, but I’ll be learning more about how to do them in an upcoming class — how to edit, add titles, effects and all sorts of fun things. But why […]
Meet Beautiful Jim Key
This is a pre-Civil War story of a slave, an intelligent horse, and a movement to treat all sentient beings with kindness. The story says it all. I hope you enjoyed it. If so, I know you’ll be in line with me to see the movie.
Thinking About Separating From Your Partner?
There are a few positive reasons for deciding to separate from a partner or spouse. ONE. A separation can help a couple get off the fence about their relationship. If ambivalence has kept the relationship stalled, it’s in the doldrums, a separation can provide wind. It can be healthy, invigorating and useful.
Farmer Wisdom
Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong. Keep skunks and bankers at a distance. Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.