Surprising and Liberating Data on Choosing a Partner
According to a large relationship science study in 2019 by Samantha Joel, what we think matters most about choosing a partner turns out to be irrelevant! So what actually matters? Watch the video below for answers.
How to Talk with Your Partner About a Difficult Subject
When it comes to communication, many of us suffer from an excess of caution. We hesitate to express. The good stuff, even. Around love. Pick a reason, any reason, for not articulating our feelings, but basically, we tend to err on the side of what we believe is safe when it comes to the heart. […]
Why It’s Important for Women to Master Relationships
Being feminine is about giving life, and nurturing life. Creating relationships with ecosystems—the plant and animal kingdoms, the air we breathe, the water we drink—is a feminine inclination. We talk to flowers, call them affectionate names. We construct a birdhouse and are excited to find that a mother bluebird has taken up residence. We check […]
Where We Get Tripped Up
In relationships, we can get tripped up when we expect our individual skills to translate directly to the success of our partnership. Individual skills are pretty clear (what I’m good at, talents, interests). But these skills are different than those needed for a soul-satisfying partnership. Being in a partnership asks us to be who we […]
Relationship Principles You Can Trust
This post is the first in a series of eleven, about relationship principles that set you free. Together, these basics build a foundation of deep love in your life, whether you have an intimate partner or not. These truths apply to relationships in general. However, no principle in this series is the first step in […]
What’s Brilliant About My 95 Year-Old Mother
We could all learn a thing or two from my mother. (In the photo, she’s on the right.) There are plenty of reasons to become discouraged as we age, what with failing-falling body parts, and the simple fact that the longer we live, the more death we witness. The aging process certainly has its challenges. […]
One Great Question Altered Our Path
There have been surprises in my first year of “new shoes.” The leading eye-opener is that I’m not breaking in these shoes, they are having their way with me instead. They are breaking me in. As a relationship coach, I thought maybe I knew a thing or two about relating—about being myself in a relationship, […]
April 18th Invitation: Your Quantum Imagination
Every human has untapped superpowers. One superpower is our imagination. Would you like to know more about your imagination, and how to activate it? When Devorah Spillman asked me to be a speaker on the next InStory Show called “Quantum Imagination,” I said yes with enthusiasm, because I believe everybody has a soul calling, and […]
Bring Your Intimate Relationship Questions This Saturday
You’re Invited! Saturday, March 26, 1 pm Eastern. Virtual Celebration forHow to Save Your Fourth Marriage by Terri Crosby. If you haven’t gotten your copy of How to Save Your Fourth Marriage, it’s okay! Come hear about it. I’ll be in conversation with Tracey Lilly about intimate relationships! I’ll also do a book reading and […]
Friday Love: Bam! Gate Breaking, Anyone?
Today, I’m sharing a story about how I accidentally accomplished something on my bucket list. I ran through an exit gate while looking the other way. The hood of my car is scratched up, and one windshield wiper is a mess, but let’s have a good laugh about how we never expect what “getting what we want” includes!
Enough with the Name-Calling
It seems to be a growing fad these days to call someone a narcissist, or declare they are toxic. Political name-calling is similar—we assign politicians and voters to categories, and brush them off as if they are unintelligent, inferior, or even worthless.
Friday Love: How to Stand in Love (no matter what)
Hi Everyone, Today, a few words about how to learn to stand in love no matter what’s up with your day. Here’s the link: https://youtu.be/SZ2Tj_V6QHI For some reason, WordPress is refusing to embed the video today. Go figure. In this video, I offer a challenge. Let me know how it goes for you. Of course, […]
Friday Love: What Do You Love?
It seems that last Friday got away from me. I had intended to send you a copy of my new video series, Friday Love! Here it is, better late than never! Thank you!